Saying Goodbye

Memorials and Bereavement

This section is for all the Cairns that have been loved and have sadly passed away. We welcome photos and stories here as memories to the dogs that were loved so much by their owners.

Having lost pets in the past, I know only too well the intense grief and sense of loss – the space that can never be filled. Everyone copes with bereavement in different ways, but I don’t know anyone who copes well with the loss of their precious companion.

Please share with us memories of your Cairn and also of the Cairn people you have known and who have ‘crossed the rainbow bridge’:

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together….

Rainbow Bridge

Smudge

We have received the sad news of the passing of a beloved Cairn Terrier, Smudge. His owners have asked us to pay tribute to him on the website so here is Smudge’s story and some photographs of him:

Smudge – 13/07/1999 to 27/01/2016

Sadly, we lost Smudge on 27th January this year, he would have been 17 in July. To say we are devastated is an understatement.

He was the most beautiful and loving dog I have ever had. He never had a day sick, not even an upset stomach. His strength, loyalty and character was amazing. He has been with me through thick and thin and was at our wedding in September 2015, wearing his dickie bow and enjoying all the attention!

His best friend was Eileen, who is now 87. Eileen has been taking Smudge out since he was a puppy and right up to the end. She used to get the bus from her home 2/3 times a week to visit him and take him out. She even took him on regular holidays! She is so amazing. Of course, Eileen is heartbroken that he has gone, as they lived for each other. She too would love to see his photograph and share his long life with fellow Cairn lovers.

“Night night little man, thank you for giving us all so much.”

Smudge was clearly very much loved and a special, loving Cairn. We send our condolences to his family and to Eileen.

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Bobby

Our beloved Bobby (3rd October 2015)

I write with sad news about my lovely Bobby who you kindly let me have in 2012 when he was then 12 years old. Originally named ‘Robbie’, he had come from a challenging background having been living with a family with a child with Aspergers syndrome, and he was later rehomed with the grandmother of that family when they could no longer cope; and when this lady died at the end of 2011 poor Bobby was with the body for three days until her family arrived and sent him to CTRF for rehoming again.

Bobby was first taken from CTRF by a couple living in Scotland, but after just 36 hours he was returned to CTRF when he had snapped at his new owner when she tried to groom him, her husband saying he was a dangerous dog. It is a sad fact that there are good hearted people who want to help by giving a dog a good home, but they have a poor understanding of dog behaviour which is so important particularly with rescued dogs who may have had a number of homes in their short little life. These dogs need time, respect and their own space to settle in, and of course lots of love.

I had previously taken on ‘Elsa’ via Chris Roberts in 2010 and at the approximate age of 4 Elsa had been in 5 previous home environments, and I was home No. 6 – her now forever home. I visited Chris at her home to meet Bobby in December 2011, taking Elsa along, and we walked Bobby along the canal path with Elsa to see how they got on, happily all went well. As we stood by my car I opened the back passenger door for Elsa to jump in, but Bobby leapt in and settled himself on the warm rug along the back seat, Elsa followed and they lay contentedly beside one another for the journey home – not a sound from either of them.

Bobby made himself very much at home with us as both Cairns were treated in the same way regarding walks, feeding and, as we were to discover, bathing! Elsa and Bobby both enjoyed a splash in the muckiest water they could find along our favourite walks in Delamere Forest. In the bath Bobby was a dream to shampoo and shower. When it came to brushing and trimming Bobby we found a sausage of the highest quality diced into tiny pieces and offered at regular intervals during the course of the brush and trim worked absolute wonders! Bobby had clearly been through some troubled times as he would growl and snap at me if I stroked too far down his back or touched his shoulders, legs or paws, however, over the (almost) 3 years with me he got used to me using canine massage strokes on his whole body and he would lay for half an hour or more totally relaxed.

I discovered gentle Bobby had some lovely traits, he was a happy dog on waking in the morning – vocalising and rubbing the top of his head into the carpet as he pushed himself along to get going, he was always first to welcome me home, his tail wagging, smiling face and tap dance….awaiting a treat from the kitchen. Bobby enjoyed meeting people both on our numerous walks, especially around picnic tables in case a spare sandwich was available, and in to our home. Bobby was well travelled as has been on lots of holidays with me and Elsa, staying in log cabins, caravans and cottages all over the country from the Isle of Skye to the Isle of Wight…which we only returned from two weeks ago.

At nearly 15 years, and although his spirit was very much a lively and all-embracing one, Bobby’s health had deteriorated particularly since July this year, he had lost weight despite his voracious appetite, he had slowed down considerably on his walks, he was quite deaf and his eyesight failing, and he had episodes of confusion. A visit to the Vet gave confirmation that he had terminal cancer and canine dementia. The hardest decision in the world had to be made and I took Bobby home for two more days with him to do his favourite walks for his last time, at quiet times of the day, before the last and terribly difficult journey to see the Vet, who was kind and considerate and had known Bobby for the time I had him. I held Bobby snugly in my arms as he slipped quietly away.

I always believe that every dog comes into your life to teach you something. Bobby taught me more than I believed I could learn in such a short time. I shall miss him so very much. God bless you Bobby.

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